Sometimes you can be with someone who you can’t get enough of, and whose clothes you can’t wait to rip off. However, when you get into the bedroom, the spark just isn’t there. It’s a fact of life that in some cases your sexual compatibility with someone can be way off compared to the compatibility you see with them in conversation. Thankfully, with some good communication skills you can become more in tune. That is after you’ve done a little introspection and worked out what it is you actually like. Although your sun sign isn’t the be-all and end-all of who you are, it can be useful in identifying certain traits about yourself, so you can tap in to your wants and needs. This is particularly pertinent when it comes to sex, when sometimes these desires are deeper than your surface-level understanding of yourself. Looking at your sign, find out what the zodiac says about your deepest fantasies.
As the youngest sign in the zodiac, Aries are known for their fervour in all aspects of life, and sex is no different. Passion and fire are at the forefront of the ram’s sexual experiences, but there isn’t much of a desire for a deeper sense of intimacy. You’ll find it much easier to have a quickie with an Aries than you will to make love with them, but this doesn’t mean there isn’t loads of fun to be had. If you’re an Aries, a piece of advice is to focus more on foreplay. Sex isn’t always a sprint or something to be won, and just because you have loads of energy doesn’t mean you need to expend it in one go before your partner is fulfilled.
Taurus is an earth sign, but more specifically is very attached to earthly pleasures. They like luxury and seduction, so can be easily pleased with lingerie or fancy sex toys, as well as eye contact, sensuality, and all the trappings of movie style sex scenes. That said, it’s important to note that Taureans aren’t always the first to take the initiative, and although they can be loyal, you might need to steer them towards what you want before they get it down. In terms of what they want, don’t expect them to have an appetite for quick sex all the time, but do expect intense and long sessions that can last for hours.
Gemini is ruled by Mercury, which is the planet of communication and expression in relationships. Gemini partners will more often than not be partial to a lot of dirty talk, but this communication doesn’t always have to be verbal. Essentially, they love the drama of the experience, whether this is heightened by linguistic or physical theatrics. It’s a misconception that all Geminis are two-faced, but there is some truth in the fact that commitment isn’t always their strong suit as they can be changeable. That doesn’t necessarily mean they can’t commit to one person, just that that person needs to be all in with their playful spirit and ready to keep things fresh (even if that means switching positions multiple times per session).
Sweet sensitive Cancer are all about closeness – both physical and emotional. They are known to be nurturers and givers, which is great in the moment, but also means they can sometimes get so lost in showing you how much they like you that they forget to actually enjoy themselves. Loyalty is also very important for a cancer, so you might find that they start out a little sheepish until they get to know you better. Once they do trust you, though, the floodgates will be open and they’re ready to be themselves.
Performative Leo has a need to be wanted. All you have to do is show a Leo a crumb of attention and they’ll be in the mood and ready to go. Although they can be a little selfish in bed, giving them plenty of affirmation that they’re satisfying you will keep you on track to being satisfied further. Despite the fact many Leos have been known to indulge in group sex, you will often find that they enjoy it most when they’re the focus.
It’s extremely like a Virgo to be driven by habit and perfection. This might translate as them being somewhat regimented in the bedroom, and critical of the way things are done if they’re not done exactly how they wish. What it means for Virgos in long-term relationships, however, is that they will work hard to keep perfecting their technique to get the experience right.
Much like Cancerians, Librans love to give. With their focus on balance, however, they also love to receive. That means if your Libran partner is intent on satisfying you, you might find that they expect the same enthusiasm when it comes to your turn to do the same. Giving to get isn’t the worst trait, and it means you can always tempt them to a 69, but expect Libra to get bored easily if they don’t feel that things are reciprocal.
Scorpio are the sign that are most likely to be kinky, getting off on heightened reactions from their partners. Expect to have explosive sex with a Scorpio, who likes rollercoasters of emotions at all times. As a water sign, though, they do still crave intimacy. So even if they seem to be all about going big or going home, you might catch a little glimpse of tenderness underneath the facade.
Sex with a Sagittarius is all about fun and exploration, as they approach this with the same competitive and get-up-and-go attitude they do everything. It can be somewhat wild with a Sagittarian, and it’s unlikely you’ll get much rest. As they are ruled by Jupiter (the planet of expansion) their desires are larger than life, they know how to communicate their wants easily, and tend to have high sex drives.
Romance isn’t really Capricorn’s strong suit, so it can sometimes feel like they’re uneasy with seduction and a little detached in the act. Despite them being the sign most likely to ‘lie back and think of England’, they’re still often good in bed as they’re very achievement focused. Take advantage of that by praising your Cap partners when they do well and letting them work for it when they don’t. If you’re a Capricorn who’s stuck in a bit of a rut, you may also find that role play is good solution to help you let go and get out of your own head – which can be strict and formal.
Aquarius are known for not normally finding intimacy too easy. This is partly true, but it’s also the fact that they can be hard to read as a sign. Be sure that they’re reading you, though, intent on analysing your sexual experience and working out what makes you tick. They’re also a sign that’s very experimental, and their planetary ruler is Uranus (now then) which also rules technology. Basically, crack out some newfangled sex toys and watch passion ignite.
Pisces and Cancer are both highly sensitive signs, but with Pisces it often comes with an extra bit of sadness seasoning. They tend to worry they’re inadequate and overcompensate as a result, which is why they crave a reciprocal partner – and above all one that understands them. Despite being experimental if they’re led, for a Piscean it’s all about the merging of minds, bodies, and souls. This intensity is great for some, but for others it can be a little too much.
source : metro.co.uk